miss maggie
09 July 2009 @ 06:37 pm
Hello, maggie is cranky as FUCK today, so she will now speak in third person and do a meme that [info]wovenindelibly did where she puts down ten quotes from ten favourite TV couples ('couples' used loosely in some cases) and you have to guess the characters and the show:

clearly, the only couples I love are either prim and talky, a strong woman and adoring guy, or one a bit mean and the other a bit waffy. )
 
 
miss maggie
I wasn't really going to say anything re: the current discussion on fic warnings, because ... okay, look. I was never big into warnings. I always figured that's what the back button was for. But the thought of people actually being hurt because I couldn't be bothered to write out a warning -- even if it's just "heavy themes" or something nonspecific -- makes me feel sick inside. I don't want to argue semantics. I just know I need to change, and I am sorry if my arrogant failure in the past to provide warnings has hurt anybody who read my writing.

Unrelatedly, one of my co-workers is having trouble with creditors and she's given all of them her work number instead of her home number. And since I answer the phone, I get to talk to them. SIGH.

As a final, dreary, and hideously embarrassing capper to this post: the weather has been so topsy-turvy lately that it's making me feel all weepy and dull, as best evidenced by the fact that the other day I spent the entire evening in bed listening to Iron & Wine and Coldplay, rereading Cry to Heaven. Am I seventeen again or something, wtf.

ETA: How the Food Makers Captured Our Brains. Interesting, especially the last part which suggests that we can, with effort, reprogram ourselves. My whole family has gradually started eating more natural foods, and we've found that one by one, we're crossing processed foods off our "desirable" lists because we just don't enjoy them anymore.

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miss maggie
23 June 2009 @ 01:10 pm
And now onto more serious business.

"But a rescued masculinity is simultaneously an injured masculinity; a masculinity that does not emerge from the inherited conditions of class and race privilege. And it is injured in a space most vulnerable to colonial constructions of incivility. At one time subordinated, that masculinity now has to be earned, and then appropriately conferred.

Acting through this psychic residue, Black masculinity continues the policing of sexualized bodies, drawing out the colonial fiction of locating subjectivity in the body (as a way of denying it), as if the colonial masters were still looking on, as if to convey legitimate claims to being civilized. Not having dismantled the underlying presuppositions of British law, Black nationalist men, now with some modicum of control over the state apparatus, continue to preside over and administer the same fictions."

- m jacqui alexander - not just (any)body can be a citizen: the politics of law, sexuality, and postcoloniality in trinidad & tobago and the bahamas

There was a tiny thread in [info]cereta's post where a person (from what I gather -- I got there post-deletion) talked about how she and her girlfriend would have to go on permanent birth control as a precautionary measure before visiting Trinidad because "men are different there".

There are so many things I want to say about this. I don't know if I can get them all in order due to my BURNING RAGE, but let's try:

1) People whose concern about homophobic violence in the Caribbean only surfaces when they are considering the Caribbean as an idyllic tropical paradise vacation spot? They need to recognize that concern as the self-serving privilege it is. The Boycott Jamaica campaign demonstrates this privilege in a truly slap-in-the-face way by using the slogan "Let's Get Together and Feel Alright" [sic], which has been the music of Jamaican tourism since, what, the 70s? Most of these islands have local populations who have already been compromised for the sake of tourism dollars. To then exploit that dependency by threatening to cut off that source of income -- and with no attendant care or understanding for the day-to-day lives of those populations -- is an ugly exercise in power.

2) There are indeed strict and abusive anti-homosexuality laws in parts of the Caribbean. I am not disputing that. I am disputing these boycott movements, these blanket statements, that surmise that the local queer populations are either nonexistent, nonactive, disorganized, or simply incompetent. If you as a Westerner are worried about your safety when you visit the Caribbean, take a fucking second to wonder what the LGBT people who live there do about it, and what would help them in their efforts for justice. You CAN, if you wanted, go to Jamaica or Trinidad or the Bahamas and never worry about the threat of homophobic violence, because you can stay in a nice, safe, gated resort on the best beaches and the only terrifying Caribbean people you need be exposed to are the ones at the market ... if you choose to take a tour.

3) None of these legislative acts against homosexuality arose in a vacuum. Read the Alexander article I linked to and find out how British laws policed the sexuality of non-white Trinidadians, then shaped the nature of local lawmaking by creating taboos and mythologies predicated on white British notions of those sexualities. Watch Life and Debt and see how crucial it is for Jamaica's survival for the island to maintain its appeal as a carefree vacation spot, often at the expense of its people. Read Jamaica Kincaid's A Small Place and see what tourism on the small islands looks like from the other side of the camera. These are not realities which afford a lot of room for radical change in legislature, as to do so would endanger already-precarious economic systems and postcolonial social understandings.

4) "Men are different there". They are, indeed, but only so much as they are different everywhere. My father grew up dark-skinned and poor in the sugar cane barracks; he's uncomfortable when gay people kiss on tv, but he believes that people have the right to be happy and he can't in good conscience begrudge them this. My well-off half-brother Richard grew up mostly in Toronto and is terribly homophobic; he freaked out once when my dad sent him a hat and, trying to say that my sister-in-law could wear it too, called it "bisexual" instead of "unisex". My dad mentioned this anecdote when my cousin Derek was visiting from Toronto and Derek grimaced and said with annoyance, "Yeah, Rich is a total homophobe."

Men are different there. I think of my legions of uncles (and "uncles") and boy-cousins and my charmed childhood, free of sexual or physical abuse, and that statement hurts and enrages me to incoherence.

Of course, my brown kinfolk might not be who the commenter was concerned about, as she might not even know that West Indian Asians exist; she might envision a Trinidad full of scary black men, as many people who don't know anything about the Caribbean assume it to be. As much as I (as a Trinidadian) am hurt by the original statement, I want to acknowledge that particular homogenizing tendency in discourse about the Caribbean, and the likelihood that any non-Caribbean person will be squinting through that half-obscured lens. And this just adds an even more problematic dimension to the idea, placing a specific colour to those men from there.

There is a strange disconnect when it comes to the West Indies as seen by tourists; the islands hold an elysian mystique, blue waters and colourful people, lilting accents and a slow, hot rhythm. But it's almost as if the Caribbean outside of travel brochures exists in a blurry stasis, and nothing else happens there unless it directly affects first-worlders. Reports of poverty, unrest, drugs and violence barely make the news and are only important insofar as they might disrupt the tourist's desire to experience "authentic" island life.

Kincaid says it best: "... so when the natives see you, the tourist, they envy you, they envy your ability to leave your own banality and boredom, they envy your ability to turn their own banality and boredom into a source of pleasure for yourself." Remember that banality and boredom, and remember that it exists alongside swimming with turtles and drinking rum on the seashore.

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(crossposted to lj this time, so people can hop the fence and boogie down for a bit)

This is technically the last day of the Block Party, but tomorrow has leeway, so if anybody hasn't gotten their post up, feel free to get it done Wednesday!

I am bringing the back half of my party mix, right-click download and no need to comment if you take 'em, for sampling purposes only etc.

night ranger - sister christian
nsync - girlfriend [remix]
paula abdul - opposites attract
prince - kiss
rachid taha - rock el casbah
s club 7 - don't stop movin'
salt 'n pepa - whatta man
scissor sisters - no-one takes your freedom [dj earworm mix]
shaft - mucho mambo sway
skee lo - i wish i was a baller
sloan - feels good do it
spirit of the west - home for a rest
stars on 54 - if you could read my mind
sting & cheb mami - desert rose [calderone mix]
tatjana - santa maria [wah-hey mix]
the bangles - walk like an egyptian
the beatles - drive my car-the word-what you're doing [love album]
the carrie nations - look on up at the bottom
the fugees - boof baf
three dog night - mama told me not to come
tony orlando & dawn - knock three times
urban cookie collective - the key the secret
velvet goldmine - ballad of maxwell demon
veruca salt - volcano girls
whitney houston - it's not right but it's okay
wyclef jean - stayin' alive

And for those of you who haven't had the time to scout around for Dreamwidth Block Party entries yourselves, here's a list of the ones I've seen so far: )
 
 
miss maggie
16 June 2009 @ 12:53 pm
I am more anxious about the situation in Iran than I thought I would be, given that my one Iranian uncle is my only tie to the country. If you have a Twitter account and understand computers more than I do, I suggest checking out this: http://heavenp2.somee.com/helpiraniantwitters.pdf

Apart from that, there's the Star Trek Fanart Meme, which is awesomeness on stilts, y'all. There is also this interview with Chris Pfine that [info]monkiedude linked to, which -- okay, as much as I love popslash? There is a certain level of vocabulary that starts to set off endorphins in my head, and watching interview footage with Quinto & Pine totally gets me there in a way that Kirkpatrick & Timberlake (bless 'em) never did. I ♥ SMART PEOPLE SO MUCH

Also, I reviewed a movie on Sequential Tart called "HellBent", which is a gay slasher flick. It was lame, but the primary storyline involved what looked like Smallville!Clark making out a lot with SPN!Dean if you squinted a bit, so, y'know. Not complaining too hard over here.

PS: Last week I saw the new Terminator, and it was BOSS. So much so that I am using words like "BOSS" to describe it. And I never even liked the Terminator movies!

PPS: I got a new layout, but two things are aggravating me: the text column is too narrow for my taste, and the font is too small and light. However, I am remarkably dotish at comprehending CSS and have no clue where to start fiddling in the code to fix these things. If anybody could help me out a wee bit, I would be eternally grateful. *hopeful eyes* Fixed, thank you!

PPPS: How beautiful is it to scroll my journals and see post after post of green? I love y'all so much.

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miss maggie
16 June 2009 @ 11:19 am



دنیارابگوییدچطورآنهاانتخاباتمان دزدیده اند


Tell the world how they have stolen our election


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miss maggie
10 June 2009 @ 07:56 pm
via [info]chopchica:

mark blumenthal - this is personal

I don't have the words, but he does.

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miss maggie
09 June 2009 @ 12:52 pm
The weather keeps going from hot to cold and back again, and the barometric pressure swings are jackhammering my sinuses. UGH. On the up side, tomorrow will be a day of tomfoolery as I am attending a food security breakfast and then going to a baby shower, both of which are work-sanctioned. Huzzah!

The 2nd Asian Women Carnival is up, hosted by [info] - personaloyceter this time 'round. I should host at some point in the future, but I haven't thought about it enough yet; anyhow, go read! Respectfully, please, although I have faith that nobody in my circle would engage in shenanigans.

Now, [info]femslash09 writer, here is some info should you require it ... )

Also, Pinto! I can't believe we went with Pinto for Quinto/Pine when we could have gone with QP/Kewpie. I haven't been this disappointed in a pairing portmanteau since we chose JoLa for Joey Fatone/Lance Bass instead of the far greater Fatass.

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I am just heading out for the day, but first I wanted to link to two very short Sulu stories that I liked a lot:

. fencing by [info] - personaldelfinnium - yes, his skill is 'fencing' ... or at least, that's what they call it

. shore leave by [info]iambickilometer - when i come home to you san francisco

They're both thoughtful and lovely, and I like things like this which address a character's background without making it A Very Special Episode.

Also, because I am me, I can't help but think of the Futurama episode that gave me the keywords for most of my Trek icons:

Takei: I find that offensive. Just because I'm of Japanese ancestry you assume I know karate. Have I ever led you to believe I've studied karate?
Shatner: Well, no, but you never talk about yourself.
Takei: (sad) Maybe if you showed a little interest.

n'awwwww! I am interested in you, Sulu. VERY INTERESTED.

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miss maggie
02 June 2009 @ 12:44 pm
I was really hesitant to write anything for the Asian Women Blog Carnival this time (to the point where I missed the submission date) after last carnival's post about my objection to white people trivializing my religion resulted in a cavalcade of people either:

a) detailing their Very Special Circumstances About Hinduism and asking me to give them a pass
b) telling me that I was being selfish/ignorant/reverse racist/narrow-minded

-- as well as one particularly baffling incident where a person private messaged me with a link to a dreadlocking comm (I know, I know) where a redhead with dreads showed off photos of her black kitten that she was going to name Kali. This person sent me the link because she thought I should see that for everyone who read my post and understood, there were still people who had "a hope that they share in a culture that they feel is richer and more raw and valid then their own". She gave me her e-mail address in case I wanted to discuss it with her.

I didn't. Oddly enough, I don't need random people sending me links to idiots to know that people still treat my religion/culture like crap.

Some of those people happen to be Indian.

I hate to talk about this publicly because inter-PoC discussions often get co-opted by racists (ask me how many times I've had to challenge people who say, "oh but black people had slavery in africa! oh but indian people have castes based on skin colour!"). But since the theme is intersectionality, I figure I might as well address it. )
 
 
miss maggie
27 May 2009 @ 01:26 pm
In the category of DO NOT WANT: one of the parents who comes to playgroup seems to be habitually incapable of not leaving unflushed deposits in the toilets. YOU ARE A GROWNUP, LEARN SOME BASIC BATHROOM SKILLS.

In the category of CANNOT WAIT: am trotting off to see the Trek movie after work with [info] - personalchootoy, eeeee! I can't even remember the last time I paid to see a movie multiple times in the theatre.

In the category of ABOUT TIME: slowly, slowly, I am gathering up links to rebootverse stuff in my delicious, which up until now has mostly been used for non-fannish stuff. But now it's also for fics I enjoyed! As well as art! Also I need to re-find and bookmark "I'M ON A SHIP"!!

In the category of IT HAD TO HAPPEN: [info]startrek_crack. Go leave prompts! This fandom is half crack already, so we might as well wallow!

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miss maggie
25 May 2009 @ 12:34 am
So, hey -- it seems I somehow filled one of the st_xi_kink prompts.

propagation techniques
sulu/chekov, nc-17, dubcon, mind control, kooky plants
"Away mission, Sulu gets sex pollen'd, takes it out on virgin!Chekov. Later Sulu goes to Chekov to apologize. Angst and comfort sex ensues. Bonus points if Chekov discovers he likes it rough."

and away we go. )
 
 
miss maggie
22 May 2009 @ 07:58 am
Sulu/Chekov - Sulu with a big dick fucking Checkov who has a small penis and Checkov has to be embarrassed about it

aahahhhahah OH FANDOM. I have missed you so! Chekov HAS to be embarrassed about it. Awesome.

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miss maggie
19 May 2009 @ 02:50 pm
I saw many things over the weekend:

. Star Trek. HOMG LOOOOOVE. I don't even have anything more intelligent to say than that. There is not one iota of this movie I didn't like, except for Jim Kirk's mom. Seriously, I saw her and was like, "why do i hate her already? she hasn't even DONE anything!" and then I realized she was Cameron from House, which means that I've spent quite a few years hating her stupid face to begin with. Excellent. Also: [info]soblazn_chekov and [info] - communitysingularity.

. Southland. Could Lydia Adams be ANY MORE AWESOME? I don't think it's possible, but she'll probably prove me wrong. Also, I keep getting tugs at my nostalgic heartstrings for Homicide; I think this is the first cop show since H:LotS that I've ever enjoyed so much. Also, am happy to see Ben McKenzie getting good work while that douchebar Adam Brody is nowhere to be seen. Boy, this entry is full of schadenfreude.

. The No. 1 Ladies' Detective Agency. I can hardly believe how beautiful and warm and charming this show is. In a media world that says "Africa" to mean corruption and poverty (and often used in a maddeningly generalized way, like 'in africa they do ___' or 'ororo is from africa' as if all of the countries are the fucking same and it's not a ginormous continent), this show offers a Botswana that is undeniably lovely. In the eyes of one of its children, no less, and not through the lens of a marvelling outsider.

This all makes me so happy! I feel like there's been a dry spell for media I've been interested in, farreals.

Also, I played a demo of and subsequently do not recommend the Wolverine tie-in video game. It's full of excessively violent imagery (come on, do we *really* need to see him lift a man's head into rotating helicopter blades?) and all of the people you're slaughtering are black and non-English-speaking. Also, Wolverine takes a plane to "Africa". O REALLY LOGAN, GOOD LUCK WITH THAT.

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miss maggie
16 May 2009 @ 09:36 am
Everybody should go look at JM's photographic account of the Pink Dot LGBT gathering in Singapore. I'm so happy they got such a great turnout! I wish I could've been there too!

I'm also grateful that JM's posting about Pink Dot because -- especially in light of all the foolishness with American queer orgs deciding to boycott Jamaica in 'solidarity' -- I think more people need to understand that yes, conservative non-white majority nations (even with homophobic gov'ts!) do have big, thriving, active LGBT populations who are strong advocates for their own rights.

Plus the Pink Dot banner is unbelievably adorable. hee!

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miss maggie
12 May 2009 @ 02:06 pm
I think I need to have a rebuttal about the racist, classist implications of living in North America and denying climate change at the ready, because this morning my program manager blindsided me with gems like, "Gee, I wonder what kind of cars the DINOSAURS drove to cause the Ice Age!" and I kind of just was in stunned silence. Blargh.

In other and semi-related news, we have MammothFail. I think isilya gives a great summary, in case you've somehow missed it.

Anyhow. There's a lot of stuff tied in to this about silencing, and erasure, and pedantic derailing, and statements urging "fairness" to white authors blithely talking about a) "eliminating" the problem of Native Americans or b) astonishment that there are so many PoC (which sounds like Pirates of the Caribbean, tee fucking hee!), and basically so much of the same ignorance that was there for RaceFail ... shit, son, sometimes I wonder why any of us bother. But we do, and there have been some great posts so far, and I'm grateful for them.

I am staying a bit removed for self-preservation purposes, but I did notice that Bujold has amended her statement about being just BOGGLED that so many chromatic fans sprung into existence upon the invention of the Internet to this:

"There are more readers than ever before, of every color; the internet has made their cross-conversations visible, persistent, and potentially powerful, reaching into spaces where they were formerly invisible."

Formerly invisible! Persistent and potentially powerful! I like that. It makes it sound like we poor backward chromatics are finally catching up to this genre; something that I am grateful for, because heaven knows that my brown people have no mythological histories that have been used as the foundations of the genre's world-building, or extrapolated onto alien races, or pasted up as exotic backdrop and costumes. No, we brown folks would have had no reason (up until now that we've found the magical internet) to be invested in those SFF stories. It's all true! More of us are interested than EVER BEFORE!!

Oh, we few exotic dinocorns, indeed.

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miss maggie
10 May 2009 @ 11:30 pm
Dear Lynn,

Thanks for helping Andy and Justin out with that song. You truly are the best.

Also, I was resorting some old files and stuff and found this photo!




Good times for all, am I right?

Thanks for sharing,
maggie

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miss maggie
07 May 2009 @ 05:44 pm
Assorted things:

. stoneself & ardhra on why abled persons should not be using the "spoons" metaphor.

. trumpeterofdoom on the Singaporean movement for LGBT rights, Pink Dot. (side note: idiots claiming that the people in Avatar "don't look Asian" should watch this video and see what Asians look like.)

. Save The Walrus! It's like Adbusters or Utne without the pretentiousness! I got a student subscription for only $20 CAD, yo.


. a book meme from [info]likeadeuce:
List three characters from ten favourite books, then have people guess what the books are! (all first names, for consistency)

1) Olive, Alberta, Cecily - The Blue Castle, by LM Montgomery (fallingbooks)
2) Sachiko, Mark
3) Daisy, Amy, Emil - Little Men, by Louisa May Alcott (fallingbooks, jae_w)
4) Hazel, Clover, Captain Holly - Watership Down, by Richard Adams (charliehey)
5) Teishi, Michinaga, Shôshi - The Pillow Book, by Sei Shōnagon (marej)
6) Dinah, Bill, Alice - Alice in Wonderland, by Lewis Carroll (deepsix)
7) John, Irene, Mycroft - Sherlock Holmes, by Arthur Conan Doyle (marej)
8) Diane, Elmer, Bruno - Macdonald Hall, by Gordon Korman (deepsix)
9) Posy, Matthew, Pauline - Ballet Shoes, by Noel Streatfield (lilacsigil, jfc, jain)
10) Tom, Grimes, Ellie - The Water Babies, by Charles Kingsley (lilacsigil, itsbeenvery)

hmmm ... most of these are children's books. And some of them dreadfully colonial. Oh well!

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miss maggie
06 May 2009 @ 09:12 am
Victory!

Thank you all so much for expressing your anger over the censoring of Racebending protest items in Glockgal's Zazzle store, and for all your advice and help; there has actually been a resolution of the issue!

Viacom and Zazzle are both claiming it's the other one's fault, but whatever. The stuff's back up and if this doesn't tell them that people are now watching what they do in regards to the Last Airbender franchise, well ... nothing will, I guess. Until we boycott the movie.

But thank you again. There have been so many setbacks and disappointments with this campaign, it's heartening to see something change quickly and for the better for once. Huzzah!

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miss maggie
05 May 2009 @ 08:40 am
So! I will be posting on Dreamwidth now and crossposting to LJ. I wish I could say it's due to some sort of philosophical commitment on my part one way or the other, but to be quite honest it's because I get 200 icons on DW instead of the 137 I'm allowed on LJ. Two hundred is standard for a paid premium account, huzzah! (Also, I'm using one of my extra icons to see if it shows up as my default on lj. I love this icon. If any of y'all ever feel like you want pretty icons and don't know how the hell to make them yourself, get thee to [info]jillicons and be dazzled by the array.)

I was going over the new stuff for this week's Sequential Tart and happened to proof an article about baseball. Now, if you know me, you will know that my interest in sports rates slightly below my interest in investment banking; however, I really enjoyed the article because it gave me a sense of what the heck people get out of being sports fans. Take Me Out to the Ball Game, Take Me to Fenway Park! Although seriously, all I can think of when I hear "Fenway" is hot dogs. I have different priorities.

Also, I was reading this article by Naomi Wolf in which she declares that "our Western moment of feminist leadership is over", and while I agree with that in general, I think she should have taken the extra step to say "white Western movement". Because that's what she really means, innit? Eh, I never cared for Simone de Beauvoir to begin with.

Anyway, back to the icon -- not only is it in lovely rainbow colours, but I felt I could do with reminding myself this more often. I'm not much of a consumer-of-stuff in the grand scheme of things, but really it applies on much more than just a material level and makes me feel all calm and happy. ♥!

(Oh! I forgot to say -- I'll be defriending some people on lj who have moved over to DW, just to cut back on their entries showing up double. Don't be taken aback should I defriend. *g*)

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